Always try to reserve seats, if you've toddlers a seat away from the doors is your safest option, not forgetting a table for play and picnics. If the train has old-fashioned carriages ask for seats in the center rather than over the wheels to prevent the possibility of travel sickness.

Check whether there is a buffet operating, but always play safe and take your own snacks in case the buffet is for some reason closed or out of stock.

Getting on and off your train can be tricky with children and luggage to contend with, especially if your are the only adult travelling. Rory and I recently embarked on a train journey with unfortunately two changes of trains and platforms (we had no option). With a 3 year old, an overnight bag (with wheels - always useful) and a heavy car seat in tow. The solution, ask the rail staff before you embark whereabouts on the platform your carriage is going to stop so you don't have a mad 50m dash from one end of the platform to the other after your train has pulled in. To ensure that you all get onto the train safely always ask, if you have young children with you, for help carrying your luggage from the nearest person in rail uniform. When it comes to disembarking, be prepared, trains generally only stop for a short time at stations, know exactly where your stop is and be ready by the door with all your luggage and children before anyone else. Ensure you are holding on to your child's hand and be aware that trains can often lurch forwards and backwards before coming to a complete stop.